The Power of Love
I recently had the opportunity to chat with Carla, the Supervisor for Burnaby Family Life’s Young Parent Program at Burnaby South Secondary School. Carla has been the Supervisor of the Young Parent Program for eight years and liaises between the childcare, high school education and lifeskills components of the program. Between her, a youth worker, two teachers and several daycare staff, they run the program for young parents that is constantly adapting to meet individual needs. Carla also manages the operation itself and advocates for youth and clients alike.
Young Parent Program
The Young Parent Program (YPP) is designed so that young parents can attend classes while their children are being watched in daycare just steps away, making it easy for young moms to see their children during the day. Young parents have to be enrolled in the YPP in order to have their child enrolled in daycare. Their schedule is flexible in the sense that they have the option to go through regular classes and take electives, but also stay in a teen parenting room and work on other subjects if it gets too hard. There have been times when a child gets sick which prevents the parent from attending classes, thereby disrupting their routine. The program has adapted to this by acknowledging that young parents have more success when they can work at their own pace.
Currently, the program takes in children from as young as eight weeks to three years. If these young moms graduate from the program and decide to upgrade their schooling, the program still considers them as a young parent and can still provide daycare for their child. If they choose to attend post-secondary, they are considered within the “community” group and new rules apply for subsidy reasons. Another Burnaby Family Life (BFL) program at Morley Elementary school provides daycare for children ages three to five and designates four spaces for former YPP participants. Carla says she would love to see the daycare expand so they could support more children, specifically older age groups.
Resources
The YPP is not just a daycare and schooling program for young moms, it’s also a resource centre for all kinds of requests. When asked about what resources are available, Carla was quick to tell me that help is given on an individual basis and when requests arise, she will try to find a resource in-house or will offer outside help if needed. Carla says they are always keeping up with individual needs on a day-to-day basis. Within the school itself, young moms are able to connect with community support.
Recently, a garden was donated to the daycare in the hopes of involving young moms in growing healthy, fresh food and to show them the benefits of growing their own food. To read more about the garden, local newspaper Burnaby NOW, has written an article about it here: http://www.burnabynow.com/life/Teaching+garden+opens/3260447/story.html
Inspiration
It’s hard enough going to school as a teenager, but when a young mom comes through the door early with a smile on her face, Carla thinks, “Wow, she did it again.” Carla says it’s inspirational when you see the attachment happening and the little family unit growing.
Inspiration comes in many forms and is seen daily by Carla and the staff. One past student who graduated from the YPP continued on to post-secondary school and ended up working for a local credit union. She then came back and donated to the program. Another student learned sign language while going through the YPP and now wants to be an interpreter. There have been lots of successful students who come through the YPP and are great examples to students currently in the program.
Help with homelessness
There’s always more that someone in Carla’s capacity wants to do and for her, it’s helping with homelessness. The program currently does not have many cases of homelessness but it was an issue a couple years ago. Finding homes for teens with children was difficult and Carla looked into the idea of starting a home, similar to temporary housing, but there were no funds for it and it’s wasn’t in BFL’s mandate to focus on housing. Fortunately, through much hard work and time, the program has been successful in helping their clients overcome homelessness.
Power of love
Thinking back to my teenage years, I can’t imagine caring for a young child as I could barely take care of myself. This is where Carla tells me to never underestimate the power of love, even if it’s a 15-year-old’s love for their child. Unplanned pregnancies happen but we, as a society, need to acknowledge that we can help teenage moms get the skills they need, while programs like the YPP, care for their children. In the long run, the hope is to help teenage moms become successful and productive members of society and in turn, their children can strive for the same and better.
Donations
It was amazing to hear that the daycare provides breakfast, lunch snacks, and access to donations whenever young parents are in need. Carla has direct contact with the Christmas Bureau and often seeks daily living necessities for parents. Donations have been made by community parents as well, but Carla says they are always open to receiving donations, especially diapers of all sizes as these get expensive for the young moms.
Pro Organics donates to the program’s Christmas party and the great thing is, the girls get to go home with bags of produce: enough for the two weeks that the daycare is closed.
Carla says they also get funding from the Food First initiative in Burnaby, where girls learn how to cook nutritious, low-budget meals in the classroom, get to eat them and go home with enough ingredients to duplicate the recipe for their families.
Other generous donations have been made by Telus for the girls to enjoy the things that their peers enjoy. Carla recalls one year where Telus donated their box suite at GM Place (now, Rogers Arena) for the girls to see teenage pop sensation Avril Lavigne in concert. Carla says the girls were thrilled and fully enjoyed themselves.
Carla points out that donations and volunteers are always needed. Donations can be made by contacting Carla at 604-257-4465. If you are interested in volunteering, please contact Claire Chiang, Coordinator of Volunteers at 604-312-3243 or e-mail cchiang@burnabyfamilylife.org. The daycare always needs extra support with the children.